Category: "Connecting with your higher self"

What No One Tells You About Following Your Inner Knowing..

September 2nd, 2016 | 6 comments

I had a funny feeling in the pit of my stomach like something wasn’t right. My inner knowing had been feeling this in short bursts in the last few months but I couldn’t really put words to it. So I finally said it ,

“I feel like our relationship has reached completion” I just have this knowing like it’s not going to work.

And I was soo afraid I was going to be wrong… like what if my knowing is completely Wrong? What’s going to happen to the kids? Where would we live? Will my husband just suddenly withdraw emotionally and be just be cold as ice? I didn’t want all that tension in the house.

What happened next actually surprised me.. and I want to let you in.

Here was an experience of Saying / expressing what I was feeling regardless of whether it was right or wrong. (Your ego always worries about being right)

It’s a Feeling.

When we attach to whether the feeling is right or wrong.. we automatically go into judgement. Did I say the Right  Thing? Oh gosh.. now what’s going to happen because I said That?

The thing that really matters is that You deeply listened to yourself and what You were feeling so the feeling could be expressed via a unique sound.. which is your voice.

What this does to your sense of receiving.. is mindblowing.. it just opens you up.. because you’re following  the guidance of Source through your life.. deeply listening to your Higher self.. the way she speaks, the notes and the resonance will become richer as you practice Listening..

There’s no right or wrong anymore.. it’s just what’s Right for You in that moment.

It was funny because I felt like when I expressed the feeling.. I noticed that I was “Given” more love.

So I said to my husband.. “hmm.. I’m a little confused and curious. I felt like suddenly you were being all loving towards me after I said what I said.. so what’s up with that?”

But my husband just lovingly and matter of factly said , “My Love has actually been constant.. it’s just that you suddenly became more receptive.. so I wanted to give more.That was probably what you were experiencing..”

Huh??

Breathe Nadhira..

It was one of those beautiful moments when I felt like time stopped just so I could sit still and Receive the Opportunity in that moment. It felt like I got something in my cells.. a deep knowing that I’d been yearning to learn and uncover for a while but it had alluded me.

I just lay there… going.. this is life altering for me… so deeply content in that moment that a deep realisation was just dropped in my lap.

So in the past few days I’ve been listening for the process around this and what it means for you as you navigate your business. 

Receiving has Everything to do with your desires and your business. If you cannot develop receptivity to life , your yearnings… then even when opportunities stare you in the face you won’t even know they’re there.. because you weren’t really listening in the first place.

 

You need to be In Receiving.. so you receive your visions.. How?

Through deep listening.

Phase I – Listening

Usually that means paying attention to the music behind what you’re actually saying or just getting quiet and still enough to hear the whispers and the tones and the melody.

All it requires is deep listening.. there’s no attachment or judgement as to whether it’s a right feeling or a wrong feeling.. it’s just a Feeling! Your feeling : ) it’s right for you at this time..

Here’s my scribbles so far of how I understand it..

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Desire expressed via feeling needs to pass through the heart and up through your voice

 

You feel your desire/longing or Feeling inside your womb space.. this area is usually two fingers below your belly button..

You can access this space through your Breath and breathing in a particular way (I practiced this a lot with my gorgeous voice coach Maryanne).

The breath connects you with this feeling realm.. brings you down and into your body.

Action step for Phase I: In order to even know what you’re feeling.. you could practice saying “I am feeling this.. I am feeling Sad. I am feeling hurt. Tip: you may  need to talk it out loud.. so you can give Voice to the feeling inside.. a friend or a confidante or a coach might help.

 

Phase II  – Courage

Then comes the bit that can get uncomfortable, because It requires Courage.

Courage to have to take action.. like Voicing it to someone who is involved in the situation at hand.

I feel like courage is the realm of the heart.

Heard people say “Oh gosh.. I don’t have the heart to say that”..  it’s because the heart gifts you the courage.

The more you know who you are and what matters to you and that your intentions are clear, the more easily you will navigate this step.

Action step for Phase II – Courage:

You can write an intention here before actually letting the notes sing through your Throat.

Write An intention because it can gift you the courage.. and you can let go of the outcome and just surrender to the fact that you listened and took the step that was right in front of you, knowing that your next step and the steps after that will be revealed to you with more clarity.

So instead of feeling like you’re going to say the “wrong thing” or you’re nervous about it coming out the “wrong way” you can just gift yourself permission to express yourself with love and acceptance of yourself and your own truth in the moment.

Whether someone understands it, agrees with it or not.. is now not really in your hands.

If you would like help discerning what needs to happen next in your business and/or life by deeply listening and then having the courage to take your next right actions, I invite you to  schedule a session with me here where we will connect 1:1 to work out your exact next steps so you walk away with a plan after truly having listened to your soul. For a limited time I am offering these session at $197AUD, you can find out more by clicking here

How to listen to your inner wisdom and reawaken your creativity with Analesa Berg

February 10th, 2015 | no comments

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In a Palladian mansion nestled in the beautiful countryside in Somerset UK, we shared a meal and drink by a real live crackling fire.  We shared stories about life, marriage, kids and I felt like I was talking to someone who was like a Momma figure to me but also a best friend. Her warmth and presence drew me in.  We clicked.

Analesa Berg is not only an artist, singer and author, she’s also a cross cultural communications consultant turned international retreat host and a thought leader on Expansive Leadership. You can find out all about Analesa here at analesaberg.com

If you’ve ever wondered how to listen to your inner wisdom so you can lean into the direction of your wise woman be it in life or business then you’ll love this interview.

Analesa and I talked about the different ways in which your intuition and inner wisdom can speak to you.

  • How you can joyfully navigate unfamiliar territory or cross roads in your life when you know something’s “not working”
  • 18 minutes into the interview you can actually SEE Analesa’s artwork and a book she created just by following her leanings.
  • 30 minutes in:  Find out about an opportunity to join Analesa in Bali.
  • Stay right to the end to receive an energetic transmission when Analesa literally sings the interview to a close : )

Analesa and I would love to hear from you in the comments below:

How does your inner wise woman speak to you?

Is there something that’s not quite working which you know needs to change? If so, what is it. Be as specific as you can x Trust that voice/leaning/knowing x

Thank you for sharing your comments.

Much love

Nadhira

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What the dolphins taught me about business : Lesson 1 By Nadhira Razack

November 14th, 2012 | no comments

Two weeks ago I embarked on an adventure! It all came about wrapped up in the form of having this desire to go away somewhere with my husband – just to take a break and go somewhere sunny and ‘beachy’. So what does a gal do? Research! I get on google and look up places we could possibly go to for a short break – Bali came up, Fiji, Northern Queensland. The more I researched the more tired I became. Nothing spoke to me. My husband and I couldn’t agree on a place we’d like to go. I had more of a villa in mind..  He wasn’t too keen on the idea – wanting to stay at a hotel instead.

In frustration I just gave up on the search and then remembered.. someone always knows the answer. So I turned it over to God (insert your word – Spirit/Source your Higher Self). I literally looked up and said “God..where would you have me go?” and in that second I received a flash – I saw dolphins.

Okay – so Now I have some direction. I needed to find a place that had dolphins! My google search had some focus. I looked for adventures on swimming with dolphins in Australia. I called up my friend Manchoon in Perth and picked his brain about dolphin swims in the area. Again not too much luck because of the season and it being cold – the place lost its appeal.
I then came across a video on facebook of two amazing fellow entrepreneurs Amanda Moxley and Christina Morrassi who had just been swimming with wild dolphins in Kona, Hawaii – that really caught my eye. A mermaidpreneur as she likes to call herself, Dana Richardson was leading guided tours for women to go out to sea and experience swimming with wild dolphins.  That was it! I kept getting drawn to the videos and photos from that trip and since then couldn’t stop thinking about the experience.

It took me courage to even reach out to Dana Richardson – http://www.danamermaid.com to even ask her about what it would take to get out there..I had no idea what it would entail to join Dana but I took the first step anyway.  (Hint: When something’s a real desire for your soul, you can often feel nervous about taking the first step).  I put my nerves aside and decided to send Dana a message on facebook to let her know I’d like to connect with her.

Here’s a picture of me and Dana on the boat : )

Dana Mermaid and myself on the boat 🙂

 

 

Lesson 1:

As entrepreneurs we sometimes think we have all the answers and push through to make things happen. That’s part of what makes us unique right – we don’t usually sit around waiting for things to happen. Yet it pays to slow down and tune into Source to ensure we are going with what our soul has in store for us – which is sometimes grander and more profound than we can imagine if we just relied on our own common sense of what we’d like to do and when.

How can you apply Lesson 1?

You can apply this to everyday decisions like “what do I do in this moment?”  – if you’re ever looking at a long list of activities you need to complete. Ask for guidance on what activity you are required to begin with first. It might be completely different than you had imagined. It might not even be on the list you wrote for yourself. You could get a message saying “Go clean the kitchen drawer”.  The lesson is in learning to not judge what you receive as being silly or not on purpose for you. Your soul already knows what you require in each moment to get you where you need to go.

Stay tuned for more lessons from my swim with the dolphins in the upcoming weeks..

 

Let me know if you’ve had a similar experience of having to hand it over to Source. Love to hear your comments!.

What’s really going on when you don’t always get what you want..

June 26th, 2012 | no comments

This topic came to me because I’ve had a situation that I’ve dealt with recently where I was hitting roadblock after roadblock and not getting what I wanted. I’ve also seen this happen in some instances for my clients and I figured it’s time we talk about why we don’t always get what we want sometimes.

The particular experience below relates to my pregnancy : ) Snuck in an announcement there didn’t I? If you haven’t been following me on facebook – here’s the news : ) I’m a first time mum to be and as I write this I’m at week 17 : )

So how does this relate to ‘not getting what you want’? It came into play when I hit so many “No’s” when it came to finding a hospital to birth my baby. This whole experience was new to me. It felt like I was just being rejected left right and centre. My first choice of hospital just said flat out that they can’t accept me because their registry was full for births in November 2012 – so “please call another hospital”.

I was so put off after that phone call. I was spoken to quite rudely and I wasn’t expecting to Not get in when I made that phone call. That was setback #1: Flat out Rejection.

Ready for the others?

Attempt #2 with Hospital 2: Initially I thought I got in and I CELEBRATED… I was over the moon! It was the same hospital that my niece was born in. I was so impressed with the lady whom I spoke to over the phone. She told me how I could get a place there so I followed the steps and kept my fingers crossed.

Setback #2:A week later I get a letter saying “Sorry you don’t qualify to be admitted to this hospital for your delivery as you fall outside our zone – please contact your local hospital instead”

I was gutted.

You wonder why you don’t get what you want sometimes. There’s always a reason , except sometimes you don’t quite know WHY things aren’t going your way.

This is where there’s always something greater at work you know? Like an unseen force, (God/Source) who might know what’s best for you – His vision for you so He’s just rearranging some events around to help you see what He wants you to see.

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The problem is you might only be connecting with your ‘plan’ which in my case happened to be ‘give birth in hospital.’ I thought that was my only option -it’s what everybody else does right?

What you may not see when everything is going wrong or Not according to ‘your plan’ – is that perhaps there’s a Better vision for you that’s in your highest good – something that you hadn’t even considered yet.

You can get upset about your current circumstances – which I did in the beginning. I just got emotional one day from doing a trip to my local hospital (trying out a 3rd option) even though intuitively it felt out of place with my plan. Just from driving around that place I knew I couldn’t have my baby there – it was just a horrible feeling that I got inside – you know that intuitive hit or gut feel that it’s totally Not right for you?

I didn’t bother sending my application in to this hospital because I knew internally for me it was a NO.

Sometimes when things don’t go your way and you feel like you’ve run out of options.. the best thing you can do is have faith, that there’s something more to this. Sometimes you can’t see Why something’s not going your way.

In my emotional state I was in no position to make proper decisions on where else I wanted to have my baby. The best thing you can do is just play it S.A.F.E. Play it S.A.F.E. you ask?? Well, not in the traditional sense ; ) This one’s for those of you who are courageous enough to live the way your soul wants to live – and bring those desires to fruition. If you’re game read on.

S.A.F.E. : Here are the steps:

1) STOP
When this happened to me and I felt like I was hitting roadblock after roadblock with contacting hospitals and getting a place there – that little voice inside (my intuition) spoke up and said “Stop Nadhira” – just stop and take a break. So I listened this time and just completely cut off my researching, talking to anyone about hospitals or even thinking about it.

How to apply this step: STOP what you’re currently doing. This allows you to take stock of whether you’re just doing this because you’re following everyone around you or whether you’re really going after your desires. It will give you some time and the silence required to listen to your inner voice/intuition/ that voice that speaks softly.

2) ALLOW.

I just asked God to give me a sign about what I was meant to do next. Whether this sign came in a dream, a message from a ‘random’ conversation with someone.

Eg. One of the day dreams I constantly received was seeing images of Warburton (an hour’s drive from where I live) and the lush green surrounds there. I had got that sign a few weeks earlier and was guided to perhaps visit the place and just meditate. I didn’t follow the guidance then.
This time once I had surrendered and just asked for guidance my messages were becoming more frequent. I kept seeing more of Warburton in day dreams, whenever I was by myself and in a relaxed state.

How to apply this step: ALLOW yourself to be guided as to the best path forward for you. Pray for guidance. Ask God/Source to be shown the right path for your highest good.

3) FOLLOW.

When I asked for guidance – I didn’t get a straightforward answer – like here you go ” there’s your answer Nadhira – give birth here marked with an X”.

I only got a hint. My hint was “green surrounds – that looked like Warburton”

During that week I got yet another hint – an email that appeared in my inbox inviting me to attend a workshop called ” Reclaim your birth power”. I was available that Saturday and I even asked my husband if he’d like to come with me – and he said Yes. Everything in my gut said “Yes” you need to be there. So I attended.

This step that I took was just the stepping stone that was required for me to act further.

How to apply this step: FOLLOW the guidance you’re given no matter how small it is. Follow the signs, messages and guidance that you do get. Perhaps the first message you get is “Go for a walk!” – and you automatically go – well how is that related to my current situation? How can That be a sign? Don’t question the sign – just follow it. On your walk – you might bump into someone or be inspired out in nature as to what you’re supposed to do next.

4) EXPAND.

I attended the workshop and I felt like I was in the right place at the right time. My awareness was expanded with the options that were available to me to give birth. I didn’t “Have to” give birth in a hospital. I learned that one of the 5 P’s of birthing is the importance of “PLACE” – where do I want to give birth? I breathed a sigh of relief!

So it’s OKAY that I was rejected from all those hospitals and that internally I didn’t even want to give birth at my local hospital. Seems like all along I never really desired a hospital setting to give birth in anyway. I was just not listening to my guidance at the time.

I connected with the lady who hosted the workshop and she helped me further with some tips on where to find a doula and midwife. I began my own search as well at the same time and when I expanded the possibilities I had in front of me I had expanded options too.
I was in a position to connect the dots. Yay!!!

I now knew where I wanted to birth – it was Warburton! That led me to find a Doula (birth attendant)- and guess what – on my facebook search I found a Doula who’s location was – drum roll please! Warbuton! We connected as soon as we spoke and I knew I wanted her to be part of my team.
She then gave me more clues to find a midwife – I got some names and numbers to call and interview some midwives.

How to apply this step: EXPAND on the possibilities available to you from the messages you’ve got and the action you’ve taken with the guidance you got in the previous step. Expand on the messages you’ve been given.

If you find yourself in a situation where you’re unfamiliar with what to do and you’ve started to take some steps and you’re not getting what you want – one clue is that perhaps you’re being guided to STOP and take stock first of what’s not working.

If it’s not working, Allow yourself to ask a question like “Is this what I really want? Is this what I truly desire?”

When I answered that question for myself in this situation I realised – well.. all I want is a beautiful environment to birth my baby. I need to be in a place connected to nature. That’s what’s important to me and the baby.

The answer that I got was NOT “the latest hospital with all the gadgets” , “the most qualified obstetrician”. These were not what I desired. They weren’t important to me. Yet the steps that I took in the beginning were leading me to a hospital where the environment was far from green, far from ‘connected to nature’. No wonder I didn’t get what I wanted eh?

Until I had stopped to ask “what is it that I truly want?” – I kept going in circles and got no result.

So when you’re in a situation and you find yourself not getting anywhere, remember to play it S.A.F.E:
I cannot be happier with what resulted when I initially “didn’t get what I want” : )

I now welcome that as a sign to go inside and play it S.A.F.E. by following the steps above : )

Feel free to comment on experiences that you’ve had to deal with where sometimes not getting what you wanted spurred you on to create a better outcome xx Would love to hear from you : )

Love

Nadhira

P.S. I’m running a workshop on July 28 – Saturday – evening – if you’re local and would like to attend and find out more- email info@comfysales.com Pencil the date xx I will be covering what it’s like to live this way – and how you can start to get in touch with that rhythm inside to go after your deepest desires in your life and your business..

Connecting with your little girl

December 22nd, 2011 | no comments

If you’ve ever been feeling like you are missing something; like you’re not living out what you signed up for when you came on this earth, then you might find a clue in connecting to your little girl.. (Or boy if you happen to be reading this:)

I’ve had the most profound experience connecting with my little girl in an exercise I carried out recently. When I was asked to think about my little girl.. a picture came to mind instantly. It’s the one right here..

Probably four years old in this picture – I had found my way into a cane laundry basket in a mall in Malaysia.  Picturing her bright eyes, full of life – just wanting to take it all in – sights, sounds, people. What did she (my four year old) yearn for, before she had the concept of fear enter her reality? I don’t think she really knew what Fear was! She was just happy being herself.

I believe she longed to connect. To connect with people. She’s had a fascination for people from as long as she can remember – for what makes them tick. She was soo curious about everything! She loved make-believe : )

When I was around 7 or 8 years old, I remember walking outside our family home ; around the block – talking to the plants – imagining they were people! I was blissfully happy in my own company because I never felt alone – I was surrounded by my own little world. At one time I remember going for a ride on my bike and stopping by the gate for ‘petrol’ (because in my mind, I was on a motorbike!), and then stopping by some plants to get my ‘groceries’. I was already living ‘the life’ in my fantasy world :  )

Whenever I had to study subjects for school, I pretended that my bedroom was a classroom. I put mum’s heels on, wore a shawl, used my blackboard and began to teach all my ‘eager students’ science, geography – you name it! They had their ears peeled – listening to everything I shared. I was care free and fearless – I took the lead, I cared for my girls (my students) and wanted them to ‘get it’ so I would explain something and ask questions and make sure they understood.  Most of all; I believed in myself. I didn’t think anyone was watching me until one day I caught a glimpse of my parents peeking through the slit in the door because they could hear me talking to myself! I think they just chuckled when I saw them. I  stopped my eager explanation and became a bit self conscious.  I continued; slightly less confident  – lowering my voice. I didn’t want to be made fun of.

So where has your little girl been hiding? Is she waiting to come out.. and be rediscovered. What desires does she still have inside? Does she want to be famous? Does she want to become an expert in her field? Maybe she wants to be the best mother she can be for her kids or build that school in Africa for young girls.

I know what my little girl is longing for..and I’ve started to ignite parts of her already.. and I can tell you it’s the most satisfying, fulfilling feeling.. : ) One of the things my little girl asked me to do was to come out of hiding : ) So here I am – I’ve surfaced from my laundry basket – to say ‘Hi’ and have a chance to connect.

So I’d like to know what your little girl is yearning for. Would love to see your photos here and comments too..