Category: "Desire"

The Missing Ingredient “After you clarify what you want”

October 10th, 2019 | no comments

I did my last FB LIVE about the key to crafting a career you love if you’re a mom of young kids.. or anyone for what matter 🙂

Here’s what I noticed.. #1 It’s really hard to know what you want inside of a vacuum.. you really need to start talking it out, use your voice.

Listen to how your vision feels when it comes out of your mouth.. And to do this.. you need a sounding board. You can’t do this alone. The process isn’t as powerful.

You didn’t come here to be a hermit.. You came to this earth to be surrounded by a supportive community. Funnily enough, we’re connected to our phones,

But you’re not connecting with people!

I’m offering to be in your corner and be the person who gets to listen to that vision of yours and refine it.

Without clarifying your vision, you won’t even notice opportunities sitting right under your nose!

Let’s do this!

Email me at nadhira at consciouswomaninbusiness dot com, or comment YES and we’ll set up a time to connect Insha Allah. (The sound is a little choppy at one point in this Live..but it corrects itself after that..)

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There’s Potential and then there’s Results – what to do when Potential doesn’t translate to results – by Nadhira Razack

May 15th, 2015 | no comments

 

Ever wonder why you may have great ‘potential’.. but for some reason it doesn’t translate into results in your business?

Here’s what I see with a lot of entrepreneurs with potential – yet they’re not seeing results on the outside.. like the clients and the money and the fulfilment.

 

Don’t beat yourself up – many people have the same problem especially when you’re making tracks in your gifts and bringing your full self to the table.

I know I did! I remember having completed a training to become a mentor in Universal Intelligence.. where I can tune into energy if I wanted to.. and I was being offered the opportunity to make a nice “side” income as a mentor of this company..

Note this happened exactly at the time I had decided I was going to take my business seriously and charge for my services in a way that felt good.

When it hit me that I was in fact ‘cheap labour’ and the energy exchange didn’t feel right,  I chose to get on the phone and let the company know I couldn’t follow through. I did get some fireworks at the other end of the phone.. and I knew I upset someone.. and whilst it was uncomfortable at the time.. it was the best thing I  did because the energy it freed up for me .. allowed me to Focus! And Focus my folks is the key to allowing things to come into your life at lightning speed.

Here’s where things start to break down:

It can look like : someone asking you to come work for them just as you’re about to uplevel and bring in clients of your own.

On the outside it might seem like the perfect ‘opportunity’

You’ll even convince yourself it’s a good decision by telling yourself:

  • Yeah I will get exposure to these people who might want to hire me later
  • I will get referrals
  • There’s the promise of payment etc..

And yet if you really look at it.. you’re working for free or almost nothing. The opportunity is really going to take up a lot of your time..

And the worst thing is.. you lose your Focus on what you’re creating and bringing about.

When you come to sit with  your own creations.. you wonder why there’s no Fire underneath..

Well my dear.. your energy is scattered!

The good news is you Can do something about it: )

Be like a detective and sniff out any projects you’re working on that you are holding onto as a back-up or back door to your own dream.

 

It’s a case of being like a detective and sniffing out any projects you’re working on that you are holding onto ..thinking “yes this will get me to where I want to go”  but asking yourself some clear cut questions as to the real motivation behind picking these projects:

Steps:

  1.  Write out the project that’s holding energy for you.. where you might be working with someone else.. or you’ve done a course and now those mentors are asking you to make calls for them and practice your skills..
  2.  Ask yourself “is this taking me towards or away from my burning desire”
  3.  Is the energy I am gifting here being reciprocated. Is this a fair exchange?

If the answer is No.. then do yourself a favour and speak up and let it go.

You might upset people or make them mad..

It will be so worth it though because your freedom is on the other side.

 

 

You doing the work that God put you on the planet to do.. is way more important than you  having to bend forwards and backwards trying to please people or worry about how you would be perceived.

The key here is to say something if someone you admire/respect is getting you to do something that feels “off” to you or you feel like a boundary is being crossed.

Remember that if something is misaligned for you.. no matter how much ‘work’ or energy you put in.. the result will not have the same kind of fulfilment that aligned desires can have for you.

The difference is – one is rooted in Fear. The aligned desire is rooted in Truth and Love.. and where Truth and Love exist.. you are bound to be supported by the Infinite and all life.

 

If you resonated with this article and you know that your energy can use a little Tune up to get you moving in your business.. then I would love for you to attend my One Day Workshop in Melbourne on June 3rd.

Get your ticket here! : https://inyourelement.eventbrite.com.au

I would love to see you in person.

Much Love

Nadhira

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The times when you don’t need or want clients or money – How to give yourself what you REALLY need!

February 8th, 2015 | 1 comment
You know.. when I had just given birth to my son Aqeel, I hadn’t even allowed myself to ask myself what I really wanted..

I thought I needed and wanted money that December (my first month after he was born) so I could feel supported. In the 3 months prior to his birth, I went out networking and was creating opportunities in my business to serve some new clients.. and the conversations that would come out of it.. were not so soul satisfying..

It felt like something was “off”

I had also just joined a high level mastermind and participated in a sales challenge with the group because I thought it was something that was productive at the time.. so I participated in it.. but my heart wasn’t in it. I just didn’t want to miss out. I didn’t want to lose on “breakthroughs”, “life lessons” if I didn’t join in.

Did I ask myself what I really wanted? No.

The result? I had sales conversations that weren’t going anywhere.. I felt like I was putting all this energy out and there was nothing coming out of it.. I was tired.

I was even making prospecting calls when I had mild contractions : ) My baby arrived the following night at 10:30pm on a full moon and lunar eclipse.

But because I wasn’t aware of what my real needs were or what I really wanted..

I thought I’d ask The Universe for Money.
I thought that would solve everything.

Yet that wasn’t what I really wanted.. And The Great Momma.. The Universe in all Her wisdom totally knew that : )  So of course she wouldn’t let me have it.. I wasn’t meant to sign on new clients. So what did I get? Lots of No’s. Or, “it’s not the right time”.. or some people who just didn’t see how I could help them. Frankly they weren’t a fit for me. My life at the time was just reflecting back to me the size of my faith.. the total lack of trust that I would be supported no matter what.

So all this energy Out. Very little in.

My recurrent theme in my sessions with my mentor was: “I am tired”. She pointed out to me that I was saying that an awful lot. And then her tone changed slightly and she asked me “What is it you Really want Nadhira?”

The tears started to roll down my cheeks. Probably because it was the first time I had connected back in with my Truth again and all this emotion was just energy in motion – energy needing to move through my system:  I said after a few seconds of silence:

 “I just want to have a break”

My coach said: “Then maybe you should ask for that. Allow yourself to gift yourself what you need.”

Hmm.. so much wisdom in that. It hit me like a ton of bricks! I felt sadness as I realised how much I must have be withholding from myself. Like how many other desires I had kept myself from experiencing. In this instance, a basic human need to rest after a period of exertion.  I hadn’t viewed childbirth as “work” or how much mental, emotional and physical endurance was required through that period.

When I got clear that what I really wanted was a break, my whole body just relaxed. I could stop focusing on doing income generating activities for that moment and shift my focus to what it is I really needed.

The cool thing is.. when you really listen and you gift yourself what you need.. after you have your break and really enjoy it.. guess what? You’re thrilled to be back : ) You have fresh energy and new insights and a ton of beautiful, loving energy to share!

1. Begin with voicing what it is you really want in the moment. Is it peace? Is it excitement and aliveness? Perhaps it’s “I would like to have a really good sleep” : ) Then allow yourself to have it. Take that nap! Go move your body if it’s feeling a bit sluggish or tight.

2. Journal and answer the question “How can I gift myself…………? (what you wrote in 1.)

3. Be open to what your intuition guides you with.

Now I’d like to hear from you in the comments.

Where have you been asking for Money or clients perhaps when what you really wanted and needed was something completely different?

This past holiday season I took the month of December and January off. I had One beautiful VIP day in December with gorgeous twin sisters and then just being there for my private client whilst she went through a website overhaul felt so nice and nurturing : )

I want to celebrate my Back to Work week by gifting you the opportunity to join me live for a free training I am doing on:

How to Network to find your ideal clients in the room every time. I am super excited to be teaching you the behind the scenes of how I network to find my clients in every room and I want to share my secrets with you

Will you join me? Mark your calendar for Thursday 12th February at 7pm  Melbourne Australia

Click Here to Register for the FREE Training!

 

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