Category: "Money"

There’s Potential and then there’s Results – what to do when Potential doesn’t translate to results – by Nadhira Razack

May 15th, 2015 | no comments

 

Ever wonder why you may have great ‘potential’.. but for some reason it doesn’t translate into results in your business?

Here’s what I see with a lot of entrepreneurs with potential – yet they’re not seeing results on the outside.. like the clients and the money and the fulfilment.

 

Don’t beat yourself up – many people have the same problem especially when you’re making tracks in your gifts and bringing your full self to the table.

I know I did! I remember having completed a training to become a mentor in Universal Intelligence.. where I can tune into energy if I wanted to.. and I was being offered the opportunity to make a nice “side” income as a mentor of this company..

Note this happened exactly at the time I had decided I was going to take my business seriously and charge for my services in a way that felt good.

When it hit me that I was in fact ‘cheap labour’ and the energy exchange didn’t feel right,  I chose to get on the phone and let the company know I couldn’t follow through. I did get some fireworks at the other end of the phone.. and I knew I upset someone.. and whilst it was uncomfortable at the time.. it was the best thing I  did because the energy it freed up for me .. allowed me to Focus! And Focus my folks is the key to allowing things to come into your life at lightning speed.

Here’s where things start to break down:

It can look like : someone asking you to come work for them just as you’re about to uplevel and bring in clients of your own.

On the outside it might seem like the perfect ‘opportunity’

You’ll even convince yourself it’s a good decision by telling yourself:

  • Yeah I will get exposure to these people who might want to hire me later
  • I will get referrals
  • There’s the promise of payment etc..

And yet if you really look at it.. you’re working for free or almost nothing. The opportunity is really going to take up a lot of your time..

And the worst thing is.. you lose your Focus on what you’re creating and bringing about.

When you come to sit with  your own creations.. you wonder why there’s no Fire underneath..

Well my dear.. your energy is scattered!

The good news is you Can do something about it: )

Be like a detective and sniff out any projects you’re working on that you are holding onto as a back-up or back door to your own dream.

 

It’s a case of being like a detective and sniffing out any projects you’re working on that you are holding onto ..thinking “yes this will get me to where I want to go”  but asking yourself some clear cut questions as to the real motivation behind picking these projects:

Steps:

  1.  Write out the project that’s holding energy for you.. where you might be working with someone else.. or you’ve done a course and now those mentors are asking you to make calls for them and practice your skills..
  2.  Ask yourself “is this taking me towards or away from my burning desire”
  3.  Is the energy I am gifting here being reciprocated. Is this a fair exchange?

If the answer is No.. then do yourself a favour and speak up and let it go.

You might upset people or make them mad..

It will be so worth it though because your freedom is on the other side.

 

 

You doing the work that God put you on the planet to do.. is way more important than you  having to bend forwards and backwards trying to please people or worry about how you would be perceived.

The key here is to say something if someone you admire/respect is getting you to do something that feels “off” to you or you feel like a boundary is being crossed.

Remember that if something is misaligned for you.. no matter how much ‘work’ or energy you put in.. the result will not have the same kind of fulfilment that aligned desires can have for you.

The difference is – one is rooted in Fear. The aligned desire is rooted in Truth and Love.. and where Truth and Love exist.. you are bound to be supported by the Infinite and all life.

 

If you resonated with this article and you know that your energy can use a little Tune up to get you moving in your business.. then I would love for you to attend my One Day Workshop in Melbourne on June 3rd.

Get your ticket here! : https://inyourelement.eventbrite.com.au

I would love to see you in person.

Much Love

Nadhira

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The times when you don’t need or want clients or money – How to give yourself what you REALLY need!

February 8th, 2015 | 1 comment
You know.. when I had just given birth to my son Aqeel, I hadn’t even allowed myself to ask myself what I really wanted..

I thought I needed and wanted money that December (my first month after he was born) so I could feel supported. In the 3 months prior to his birth, I went out networking and was creating opportunities in my business to serve some new clients.. and the conversations that would come out of it.. were not so soul satisfying..

It felt like something was “off”

I had also just joined a high level mastermind and participated in a sales challenge with the group because I thought it was something that was productive at the time.. so I participated in it.. but my heart wasn’t in it. I just didn’t want to miss out. I didn’t want to lose on “breakthroughs”, “life lessons” if I didn’t join in.

Did I ask myself what I really wanted? No.

The result? I had sales conversations that weren’t going anywhere.. I felt like I was putting all this energy out and there was nothing coming out of it.. I was tired.

I was even making prospecting calls when I had mild contractions : ) My baby arrived the following night at 10:30pm on a full moon and lunar eclipse.

But because I wasn’t aware of what my real needs were or what I really wanted..

I thought I’d ask The Universe for Money.
I thought that would solve everything.

Yet that wasn’t what I really wanted.. And The Great Momma.. The Universe in all Her wisdom totally knew that : )  So of course she wouldn’t let me have it.. I wasn’t meant to sign on new clients. So what did I get? Lots of No’s. Or, “it’s not the right time”.. or some people who just didn’t see how I could help them. Frankly they weren’t a fit for me. My life at the time was just reflecting back to me the size of my faith.. the total lack of trust that I would be supported no matter what.

So all this energy Out. Very little in.

My recurrent theme in my sessions with my mentor was: “I am tired”. She pointed out to me that I was saying that an awful lot. And then her tone changed slightly and she asked me “What is it you Really want Nadhira?”

The tears started to roll down my cheeks. Probably because it was the first time I had connected back in with my Truth again and all this emotion was just energy in motion – energy needing to move through my system:  I said after a few seconds of silence:

 “I just want to have a break”

My coach said: “Then maybe you should ask for that. Allow yourself to gift yourself what you need.”

Hmm.. so much wisdom in that. It hit me like a ton of bricks! I felt sadness as I realised how much I must have be withholding from myself. Like how many other desires I had kept myself from experiencing. In this instance, a basic human need to rest after a period of exertion.  I hadn’t viewed childbirth as “work” or how much mental, emotional and physical endurance was required through that period.

When I got clear that what I really wanted was a break, my whole body just relaxed. I could stop focusing on doing income generating activities for that moment and shift my focus to what it is I really needed.

The cool thing is.. when you really listen and you gift yourself what you need.. after you have your break and really enjoy it.. guess what? You’re thrilled to be back : ) You have fresh energy and new insights and a ton of beautiful, loving energy to share!

1. Begin with voicing what it is you really want in the moment. Is it peace? Is it excitement and aliveness? Perhaps it’s “I would like to have a really good sleep” : ) Then allow yourself to have it. Take that nap! Go move your body if it’s feeling a bit sluggish or tight.

2. Journal and answer the question “How can I gift myself…………? (what you wrote in 1.)

3. Be open to what your intuition guides you with.

Now I’d like to hear from you in the comments.

Where have you been asking for Money or clients perhaps when what you really wanted and needed was something completely different?

This past holiday season I took the month of December and January off. I had One beautiful VIP day in December with gorgeous twin sisters and then just being there for my private client whilst she went through a website overhaul felt so nice and nurturing : )

I want to celebrate my Back to Work week by gifting you the opportunity to join me live for a free training I am doing on:

How to Network to find your ideal clients in the room every time. I am super excited to be teaching you the behind the scenes of how I network to find my clients in every room and I want to share my secrets with you

Will you join me? Mark your calendar for Thursday 12th February at 7pm  Melbourne Australia

Click Here to Register for the FREE Training!

 

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If you were in a relationship with Money – would it stay or would it go?

September 14th, 2014 | no comments

I remember saying to myself “I want to get really good with money so I never have to worry about it again”. Yet I know we create it because sometimes the drama of it is the only thing that will get us to “conscious” about our  money and actually look at what’s really going on with it and even pay attention in the first place.

With that in mind, my dear friend Tamra Mercieca invited me to have a chat about Money and our relationship to it. In this 30 minute audio interview we look at how you can connect better with money so it’s something that you invite into your life as opposed to pushing away from your life. We shared many nuggets of wisdom that if you allow to sink into your consciousness , it will be a great start.

Here’s the link to the interview where Tamra and I talk about how you can get some money love in your life

Tamra-Mercieca-Getting-Naked Tamra Mercieca is a Relationship Therapist, Author and founder of Getting Naked Pty Ltd  where she teaches people how to strip off the layers stopping them having the self-love needed to create a life they absolutely adore. If you’d like to learn how to clear the mental gunk keeping you from having a nurturing relationship with YOU, then have a listen to her 45-minute audio explaining how: http://gettingnaked.com.au/the-naked-way

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Could you be playing it safe?

October 8th, 2012 | no comments

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking you need to play it safe , this video is for you:

http://youtu.be/Efo5GCxQmgY

Maybe you’ve been thinking about taking the leap and going for that new opportunity in your business and that little voice says “It’s not the responsible thing to do right now”. You’ll have a version of this thought process playing in your head – most times , it’s not even your thoughts, it’s the voices of well meaning people in your life – you may have heard your parents, teachers and caretakers drill this into you whilst growing up – , “Cut your coat according to your cloth”, “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket” , “Do the right thing, the responsible thing”.

I know that in growing my business, I didn’t do the responsible thing and leave my job when my business was at a certain point. I had to quit my job even when I had no ‘visible’ signs of the income coming – because I realised it (my job) was holding me back. It was too comfortable to have my job and grow my business at the same time. Was it the responsible thing to do; was it safe? It may not look like it.

Yet, it was exactly what I needed to do to bring in what seemed like a miracle. The instant I made that decision everything shifted.

If you’re really listening to the desires of your heart, then there is no risk, especially when every cell in your body knows it’s right for you. The greater risk is that you go through life never quite living the life you were meant to live.

Here are two questions for you to answer:

What would you create in your life if you didn’t have to play it safe?
What risks would you take if you knew that the desires you have and visions that you have came from your heart, from God/Spirit?
The Universe wants you to have those desires come to pass.

“The thinking stuff is friendly to you and is more anxious to give you what you want than you are to get it.” – Wallace Wattles

Watch the video http://youtu.be/Efo5GCxQmgY and share your comments with me.

Much love,

Nadhira

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I really want to “do this programme”, “attend this event” but I don’t have the money

March 7th, 2012 | 8 comments

Is this you? Have you heard yourself say this?  ” I really want to do this, I feel like this is the right programme  for me, BUT I don’t have the money.”

I’ve been meaning to connect with you all to share what’s been going on behind the scenes here at Comfy Sales and I felt that this topic was waiting to come out!

It’s already been a month since I attend David Neagle’s event – the Be Free – Live Experience in Salt Lake City – Utah. Being at the event was life changing and I wanted to share with you what my process has been in evaluating whether or not an opportunity is right for me.

David Neagle and Nadhira - Millions Within - Book Signing - Salt Lake City

 

When the opportunity came up to attend this event back in October 2011, my whole gut was going “YES!!” – you need to be there. In my own template, my gut is my biggest authority no matter what anyone else says or thinks. If my gut says it’s right, then I trust it because that’s how I make decisions.  Externally though, circumstances weren’t ideal for me to book my ticket to this event as I had just invested quite heavily in my own development and already had a credit card that I needed to pay off. At the time I didn’t have the funds for my flight Or my accommodation but I booked my place Anyway.

I trusted that I was meant to be there for a reason..and had faith that I would have all the resources at my disposal when I needed it.  January arrived and I booked my flights on a second credit card, found an amazing room mate through facebook  and I was on my way all the way from Australia on a 20+ hour journey.

Being at this event changed my life! When I made the decision to be at the event, I didn’t have a crystal clear logical explanation of what this experience would do for me.. All I knew is that in my heart and in my gut.. I just knew I had to be here. It felt Right.

Snow capped mountains at sunrise - view from my hotel room in Salt Lake City

 

Sometimes the journey to where you want to go can seem like climbing a really steep summit. You know that you want to get to the top, but right now, you’re at ground level and you can’t imagine How you’re going to get there. When you ask for what you want, whether that be in prayer or just expressing that desire to yourself – God/The Universe/Source hears you.  The way the Universe works though is something that I have come to learn very well. It doesn’t just Give it to you! The Universe will put in front of you an opportunity , an opportunity that requires you to grow – to climb a  step or two outside of your comfort zone in order to embrace the opportunity. 

It may well be that the opportunity comes in the form of a programme offered by a coach or mentor, an event that requires you to take time off work, spend on flights and accommodation. Yet this is the very next thing you require in order to take the step in the direction you want to go so that you can have what you really want.

So next time  you catch yourself going “Oh I can’t afford it” or “That’s too expensive” or “I dont have the money for that right now” – I invite you to think again.. is it really the money? Or is it a willingness to do what you have to do to find the money? Because the money is there – it’s always there – if you have a desire – the money is there. It’s a  Universal Law – The Law of Polarity that implies that for every problem there is a solution, for every desire you have inside of you, there is a way to make it happen.

So remember, if you need to do something and it feels right – the money is there.  You cannot simultaneously have the desire for something without the way to make it happen to be there also – it’s the law. I am opening up discovery sessions again for the month of March – if there’s a summit that you’re desiring to climb this year or a desire in your heart that needs to be witnessed – then I invite you to go to http://www.comfysales.com/comfyconversations/sales.html and book a session with me. Allow me to be your guide to get you in the right direction.  xx

Love

Nadhira

 

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