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When your heart wants what it wants

July 15th, 2019 | no comments

It was the eve of Nabeel’s 1st birthday on Thursday night. He’s my youngest of 3 boys.  I was rocking it out to “Royals” by Lorde.

I was reflecting on all the moments in my life where I always felt like I was between two worlds.. I distinctly remember when I was 14 and on a family trip to Canada’s Wonderland. I was dancing in my hijab in the green room and this boy on the other side of the glass exclaimed ,

“Dad! Look! A nun dancing to Beyonce!!”

(I didn’t hear the boy, but my parents found it hilarious and told me the story when I re-joined them after my dance off)

I wonder what your own version is ..of this marrying of two worlds … ?

Have you made some vows that the two worlds shall not mix?

That you can make money – but you can’t make money doing what you absolutely love? Or that you can only do one or the other?

I was talking to a client who just completed 18 months of work together and she came to me when she was feeling a little lost, like she was drifting. She had a lot of judgment around her career choices from family but  the fact is – she was highly qualified but didn’t want the end result of what the qualification led to.. eg Phd = a career in academia. But in her heart, she knew she didn’t want that.

What do you do when you reach a pivotal moment like that?

It can be scary right?

What happens when you’ve sacrificed a big part of your life to get qualified in something, only to find out, your heart’s not lit up by the industry or how that whole world works?

To have the courage to say out loud “I don’t want that” is the first step.

Tas reached a point in her journey where she wanted to find something to dedicate her next 10 years to. She didn’t know the answer, but she was committed to finding out.

During our work together, she found her own brand of “What sparks joy” in her career  : ) After Marie Kondo’ing her wardrobe and home too, she was less weighed down by her stuff.. and the white noise.. and life brought to her , her perfect career.

It infused her love of travel , teaching and teens  : ) Teaching English as a second language in residential colleges.

What I am most excited about is that her real personal vision was to expand her family and adopt an older child. That was at the core of the work. Her career move had to fit in with this personal vision.

She said “Nadhira, you know this role is putting me in direct contact with older kids?? The ones that other people deem trouble!.. and I LOVE them!”

My heart was so lit up hearing that : ) Isn’t it so beautiful how the Universe works : )

She said excitedly to her husband Mike after her first day at her new job, “We are so not going to have a problem adopting an older child.”

She could see their specialness and.. I just know she will be building her own version of a home that sparks joy when life gets her ready for that big personal adventure she’s taking on next inshaa Allah or God willing as I like to say.

This career piece resolving itself is the stepping stone to making that personal vision and dream a reality.

The income from this job will provide the lenders with what they need so she and her hubby can be approved for a mortgage to buy a bigger home that could fit a growing family God willing.

When I commented to Tas, “How do I explain to people what we did because sometimes it feels so intangible ! “ : ) She said.. “While the work itself might seem intangible.. the results are So tangible!”

She even lost 30lbs during this journey.. getting rid of excess.. anything that wasn’t required.. so she could get to the core of what she wanted. Whilst this wasn’t a focus of our work together, Tas got rid of anything that didn’t fit the life she was growing into. The losing weight was just an added bonus of her increased frequency that she created by committing her energy , time and money in the direction of what she wanted. 

If this sounds intriguing to you.. I have a special invitation.

Book a call with me to take a look at your own life and bring me an area that’s causing you some level of frustration or challenge.

Maybe you’ve been trying to figure it out yourself and the situation hasn’t shifted.

Spend 15 minutes with me and we’ll get to the core of it on the call with me.

To apply: reply to this email with “I feel like I need to pivot – can we talk?”

I may send you some questions to answer beforehand so I get a sense of the problem and we’ll meet on the phone or skype to get some answers.

Having someone have a strong connected heart is at the core of what I bring to someone when we work together, so if you’ve had trouble hearing your heart speak or are in need of a good cleaning of that beautiful vessel of yours.. consider booking a call to reconnect and re-navigate xx

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Rock Your Routines!

November 24th, 2016 | no comments

Routines! BAH! You say :  )

Being a creative Rebel knowing what I’m going to do ahead of time doesn’t always work for me. I’m someone who does need to follow a feeling .. but how do you just lead with feeling when there’s stuff that needs to get done ?

I’ve been reading a lot about rebels and how they can function when it’s really hard for them to follow other people’s expectations of them. On the other hand they also resist keeping inner expectations and self made rules.

When it comes to business, routines are things in the business that need to be done on a timely basis. There are some things that need to  be done daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly , annually.

When you’ve got routines set up and  you know what they are.. life gets easier to manage.

Here’s a sample of things that need to get done to have things run smoothly in the business:

  • Client service
  • Sales conversations
  • Content creation/marketing/engagement
  • Admin/financials/paperwork

You can experiment with what you call each of the activities that run on routines to suit you. For example if you find that you constantly put off doing paperwork because inside you don’t feel it’s not that important.. then you need to find a way to use language to change how you feel about doing paperwork. You can name it something completely different  : )

Language > drives meaning > which drives emotion > emotion determines what you can/can’t do.

The best explanation I’ve seen so far is Tony Robbins taking this business owner through a process to help her change the way she views paperwork.

If you want more depth about this concept of helping you keep agreements with yourself check out Tony Robbins clip here >> https://youtu.be/-VWgMfyPS48  Scroll to 50 minutes into the clip. I love how he links the six human needs to help you find a pathway to do things you know need to be done, but you might not like to do.

Let me know what you found most eye opening : ) Can’t wait to hear your thoughts xx

Do you find that you keep putting off the routine activity of talking to new people about your work? Or introducing new people to your business? Then come to class here >> http://learn.consciouswomaninbusiness.com/masterclass/

 

 

 

Don’t Skip This Step for a Business and Life that’s Ridiculously Engaging!

October 24th, 2016 | no comments

I’ve been in deep enquiry over the past week..and have learned not to push when I am in receiving mode.. just listening to the messages that are coming my way after having set a potent intention about creating something juicy and beautiful in my life.

I have been so creative over the past few weeks and last week I really wanted to share with you on a Facebook Live, something that I upcycled in my home that I was really proud of and what it means for your Visions. Didn’t get to do the FB Live just yet so below is a pic of it.

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Okay so don’t laugh – the pic I had taken back then was on a day that I’d just purchased my favourite brand of chai in Melbourne.

 

A buffet table left on the sidewalk at my old place and I saw it’s potential so I took it in..

Gave it a breath of life with a sample pot of paint in Smoulder Red.. just through following my visions and the pictures in my head about the colours I wanted.. the kind of cabinet knobs and the look and feel I wanted in my dining/family room..

This was Creativity working through me.. really listening to what pleases me and how I receive pleasure and enjoyment in my life..

The weeks prior I had picked up a gorgeous book from the library called Casa Bohemia.. and it contained interiors of homes in Hollywood, New Mexico, and different architectural homes that had Spanish and Moroccan influences in their design.

And something sparked.

I got inspired then to purchase Dhurrie rugs for my couch in my office and for my bedroom.. and I knew I wanted to spend $200 on an update.. and the Universe delivered. I got 5 items for that price – and was so pleased with how warm and cosy they made me feel.

Why am I sharing this?
It’s cuz I want you to know that there is a Creative force working through you that can call you fourth to do some really cool stuff..

While doing this thing that had nothing to do with my business, I suddenly got the inspiration for what I really wanted to bring in the money for.. the possibly of owning a Tiny Luxury House on wheels : ) (This idea – inspired by daytime Television)

I could soo feel the aliveness in my belly at the thought of it.

If there was a phenomenon that I am deeply aware of.. it would be an epidemic of women who do Not know what their visions are!

How on earth are you expected to go create and bring in the money and the clients when you don’t even know what it is you’re wanting to create for your life and your calling in this lifetime?

This is where I believe a lot of business coaching and mainstream business advice can fall flat. It’s just a bunch of strategies to “grow your list” or “create and fill your programmes”  …

..but you know what I’m interested in?

I’m interested in why that even matters to you. So what if the people come for your event and they happen to become a client of yours.. WHY does that matter? WHY does it matter that you have a 1000 people on your list or 10,000?

Can you answer that?  – The answer will be in your Vision for your Life.. and Your Business.

Even if you haven’t got words to it yet, does it stir up a really strong feeling in you?

Does it expand you just thinking about it? Or does it just fall flat? Does it feel .. Numb?

Numbness, Apathy, Boredom, a complete lack of Focus and aliveness – they are all Symptoms.

Symptoms of a woman who hasn’t been taught or learned how to create deeply Compelling, Fulfilling Visions that move her forward.

Visions Pull You Forward. It summons a part of you that is asleep, to awaken.. THAT is stuff of potency my friends.

When you Create Compelling Visions…  the amount of Focus you will have! WOO!

The amount of energy output and what you get done in that time! Phenomenal.

The last 15-30 mins? I wrote all of the above.

The kind of output you generate when you’re on this stuff.. is just mindblowing.. and I want you to be able to experience it.

Imagine getting to your desk and knowing exactly what you needed to do that morning. A Higher self driven Priorities List  actually scratch that out.. It’s usually One Thing she gets you to focus on with so Much energy and intensity.. that the Thing.. done in a Certain Way.. creates the results you’re looking for..

More than any kind of headless chook kind of activity ..where you’re flitting from one thing to the next.. half arsed, spreading yourself so thin, Result? = Exhaustion. Worse than that? You want to Quit! And then after that ? Urgh.. Apathy..and what’s the point of this whole thing anyway?

You are So in the right place if this is you..

I want to show you a way that you can FLIP this thing!

And experience an opportunity to Vision like you may never have before..

I am going to take you by the hand and connect with the heart of you So deep that your Visions Have to fall off that shelf! They Will Appear.. in your Minds Eye..

Such is the Power of Joining this class.. my dear.

I want you here.. it’s a beautiful place. It’s a place of Peace, of All if Well.. and Your Soul, Higher Self, The Universe. God, Angels.. with you saying “We’ve got work to do .. “ Let’s get on with it shall we?
Meet me On Wednesday November 9th for this Epic Masterclass on how You can Vision your life into Being.. 

Pen and Notepad required. Your Presence – Required. Your Soul will Thank you xx

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The Best Way to Create Content by Nadhira Razack

August 19th, 2016 | no comments

 

Ever sat down to write that blog or create content for your audience and experienced writers block?

Me too!

Just like these string of beads, getting your writing out is a multi step process, I have found that it takes about 5 steps.

Just like these string of beads, getting your writing out is a multi step process

Just like these string of beads, getting your writing out is a multi step process

In order to Write Content:

 You need to be reading/listening/ taking in Inspiration 

This is Part 1.

Pay attention to what you gravitate towards. I would usually just intuitively be guided to read something or a podcast title will catch my eye and I’d just play it.

I have found that my mornings are where I do this when I wake up before the rest of the household.

 Then there’s Part 2 of 5 :That’s where it’s white space for me.  Just thinking time.. where those ideas collide with my own perceptions, filters and my beingness.  For me I noticed my biggest insights come when I am moving my body, just engaged in being.. doing life.. like “having my fingers in soapy water doing the dishes.. or out with the kids on the grass.. the matching of ideas and insights come when I am not forcing it… “

Which means I might have a few days in between consuming.. and then white space.

and then Part 3 of 5 – The creation piece. This is where you engage in the action of writing the piece of content or recording the video or audio that you want to share with your audience.

Here’s where I used to get hung up:

My mistake used to be expecting all of these steps to come out at once and then of course I experienced writers block! Understanding  my own creative process has given me so much freedom to just be me and kind to myself too. I learn that I need a lot of time to marinade : ) and that’s my own creative process.

When I wasn’t aware of my process, I would wake up early thinking some magical piece of content will just flow through me; not understanding that there were these sub parts that had to happen too. On the odd occasion I would just be in the flow and something would just come through..but I wasn’t consciously aware that there were these other steps that preceded it on the days that I was in the flow. Make sense?

When you link up these steps together like a string of beads.. you can then complete the loop.

  • Part 4 of 5 : Then comes the habit of doing these 3 steps consistently.

For me, the habit of waking up early is the underlying habit that even allows me to do this. Or doing the thing that triggers the habit.. like making sure my feet hit the floor when my alarm goes off.. instead of thinking I can shut my eyes for 5 more minutes.. because I know what happens then.. it hits 6am and my whole household is awake!

Then what do you need to Write? What preparation steps need to take place in order for you to be ready to be in Creation ? That’s Part 5 of 5

For me it’s definitely early mornings. As a momma of 2 little ones, my oldest is 3 1/2 and my little one just turned 1.  I am in response mode to them as soon as they wake up.. so waking up early is the only way I have carved out time for me to just be in Part 1 (just beingness.. listening to whatever I want, reading, journaling.. or just enjoying my coffee and company with myself.. enjoying the silence. Or I will just put Pandora on and have that in the background.

My morning prayers are also happening in these early hours..

So what needs to happen the night before so I can wake up early? I need to be in bed by 9:30pm! Most times my body is naturally ready to wake up at this time so I tend to wake up before my alarm goes off.

And sometimes folks,, I am not doing anything “creative” except really enjoying having a shower or washing my hair without the kids waltzing into the bathroom : ) And water is a really sensual element anyway so I get some really good ideas in the shower : ) Or people I need to connect with.. they come to me.. when I am not trying or forcing : )

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Cocooning versus getting into Conversation by Nadhira Razack

July 20th, 2016 | no comments

 

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Sometimes although as much as you’d like to ruminate and stay inside in your cocoon while something different is cooking up, the real work comes when you put that out there and get real life feedback: In the form of picking up the phone, speaking to people, being in conversation.

Even discerning when something is a skill to be learned via a formal course versus needing help, a guide to get you where you want to go.

Setting goals and intentions is great because it gives you a direction. The point of all of it though is never the goal but who you become along the way to having that in your life.

Here’s what I know:

That I just love the whole journey that is entrepreneurship,

The journey that you go through to bring something from idea into form.. from scratch.

“The roller coaster ride that is Bringing something into the world that doesn’t exist because you said so”  quoting my writing teacher Stella Orange.

We have to learn when we’re just studying and studying versus putting the learning into action. It’s through action that you really learn what actually works versus what doesn’t.

I remember what it was like going from having one child aged 2.5 years old to having another baby and I was so overwhelmed. My older one refused to go to occasional care and I didn’t quite have the skills or knowing how to BE in order to get him out of the house.

I called a parent support hotline from our local council and just having this lady talk me through my options of how to cope after having my second and we realised “you know what honey.. if he  misses one day.. just let it go”. Even for this woman to tell me “what you’re going through is so normal”

And I remember sitting on the couch with my older one still in his PJs and feeling like such a failure.. tears streaming down my face and holding my baby in my arms too going.. “when is this going to get easier?” I rang occasional care and told the teacher in tears that I can’t bring him in .. and they said.. you know what.. bring him in his PJs and we’ll pick him up from the car park.. and change him inside.  I had angels supporting me get through that transition : )

And now my second one is turning 1 at the end of this month and boy how far we’ve come! I got the help when it showed up and it felt right. I took the guidance in the form of a 9 month mentorship by a lady who managed to do it all with 5 kids in tow and I was soo curious as to how on earth she did it. For me it was a 9 month journey of knowing how to do soul’s calling, have a great partnership And raise kids that thrive.

My mentor in her very Dutch way just said “Nadhira, you can’t get your son late for school it’s just become a habit and it’s not good for him or you.. so do his lunch the night before, make sure you have breakfast together (I actually began to have breakfast with him by lighting a candle at the dining table so he had some food in his belly) –

The me Before the guidance.. I was rushing , getting  him in the car.. and he never liked being rushed.. all because I hadn’t organised myself.

In a 30 minute phone call we figured out where my blind spots were just by talking it over and having someone outside who had figured this out tell me “do this. Try this”.

And I Loved it. I remember relaying to my mentor how freaking proud I was of myself.. not from a conceited way but such a joyful childlike.. OOooh my gosh I DID it!! My 3 year old is soo happy going to kinder now too and he brushes his teeth, picks out his clothes and is ready to go all because my family structure started to work better.

Here’s what I see that works:

  • Talking into a space for clarity.. sometimes you don’t even know what you need until you speak it out loud.
  • Not in circles in your own head.. but out loud into an intentional space. A space that’s just filled with curiosity and non judgement so we can catch these magical moments of truth and clarity so you can take your next step.

I had so much fun with this last week, that I decided I want to do it again. I’m opening up 3 spots to speak with me about what’s going on in your  business and life and figuring out your next step. Hit reply : email: nadhira@consciouswomaninbusiness.com if you get a gut yes or a leaning in.. and I will let you know what to do next so we can set up a time if I feel I could be the right space for you.

Love

Nadhira

Experimenting and the Creative Process by Nadhira RazacK

July 6th, 2016 | no comments

 

What are you like when  you have an urge to do something new in your business?

Do you talk about it a lot in your head?

Do you action it?

What is your connection to creativity and ideas and how they go in real life?

Do you remember I began a Monday Morning Prayer Circle for Intuitive Soul Driven Women in Biz in my last newsletter?

To me . that Idea came to me and I was in the flow and went, “why not” .. I was in the energy of gifting and it felt like fun to me..

Well.. the way I imagined it and the way it landed were different to how I expected it.. and I enjoyed the whole process of it.

Part of me was so excited to share and have a non religious sermon or pep talk that I didn’t realise that for some.. more silence was what was actually required for them to hear their inner wisdom : )

The idea came to me as a way of starting up our week in a powerful way.

What happens when you put highly sensitive , intuitive , healers, psychics, together..?  sometimes we tune into each others stuff too  : )

For me personally the result was.. I was a lot more chaotic afterwards.. I couldn’t actually begin my week powerfully : ) and Mondays in my household.. I need a slower morning to get going after a big weekend with kid/family energy.. transitioning into my work week 🙂

Week 1 and 2 were great. Week 3 , our nanny’s car broke down on the freeway on the Monday so I had no childcare.. so I had to let it go and surrender.. Week 4, I hadn’t updated folks that I was still doing the prayer circle so I showed up and did the meeting with myself : )

The result ?

It was great because I completed a cycle of an experiment and realised okay… cool.. this idea in this format doesn’t actually work for me. But it did show me that community was something I wanted to experience more of in my business and bringing really awesome ladies together to connect with each other is something I am working on in the background : )

It also taught me : What’s really needed is silence.. and possibly the thing I Can do is create a meditation or ritual as an audio that my audience can play in their own time and get connected to that slip stream to get guided messages from their soul/higher self.

See? the solution came just as I typed it : )

My question to you is: How can you start to relate to certain things in your business as an experiment?

Would that help you initiate and launch things more quickly so you get a feedback loop quicker?

Would that help you emotionally because you won’t get too attached to whether it worked or it didn’t?

Let me know what you have been experimenting with  : )

How I manifested my dream home in 6 days

March 29th, 2016 | no comments

I’m not sure I even like the word manifesting – I know now it’s more about being a Match to that which you are desiring to come into your life.

I remember filling out the rental application and the question was something like “Why are you moving?”.. and all I had in me was deep appreciation for the beauty of this place and how much it had fit the images in my imagination of what I wanted for our family at this phase in our life.. so no matter how woo woo it seemed.. I wrote from my heart on that application like my life depended on it…and at the same time.. I was unattached to whether I got it or not .. like I wouldn’t have felt devastated if I didn’t get it.. I would have trusted that there was something in the horizon for me that I couldn’t see yet.

I loved that the home was right near my fav shopping centre that has a library that I love, a town square.. the vibration of the shops and cafes in that place with fresh herb boxes right outside the restaurants.

I remember a conversation with  my husband where I actually vocalised “You know what I can actually see myself living here”.. and at that point had no idea we would find our ideal home in this suburb.

Before this came into view, I had lived in the contrast.  I knew my time was up at this current place and we certainly didn’t want to renew and stay here.. it just didn’t feel right. We wanted more green space, and some place with a bit more character and charm. Definitely wanted a back yard for the kids to play in.

Then I began to pay attention to what I actually did like.. the fact that I cut out physical images of the things that I did like.. allowed me to Know what it is I loved.. so when I saw it in physical form it was easy to see that it was a match.

Day One – Thursday – I had been out with the kids. We had just been out, they had fallen asleep in the car.. it was a relatively cool day so I kept all the doors open in the car, including the garage so I could hear them.. and then took a nice deep breath.

I had 8 minutes of soul guidance.. where my soul said “sit on the couch and paste those magazine clippings” so I got some glue, got some art paper from my 3 year old’s stash and sat on my white couch and glued away for 8 minutes.

Here’s that piece of paper : )

Magazine clippings of things that spoke to me - somehow connected to our home x

Magazine clippings of things that spoke to me – somehow connected to our home x

 

Can you see the title? It said “Home for the Holidays”  : ) and when I pasted it.. I wasn’t even conscious about what it meant.. it was like my hands were guided .. and I just pasted it there as a title. Guess what our move and the whole move in date and vacating where we are now is happening in the school holidays.

On Saturday we went for the Open for Inspection and loved the home

We applied for the home by Monday

On Wednesday we were told the landlord had approved our application.

I knew there were quite a few other applicants too.. and everything was speeding ahead.

Funny that : )

 

Lesson learned in these words below:

Once you have practiced the vibration of what’s in your Vortex long enough that you own the frequency of it, and there is no gap between you right here where you stand and the vibrational reality in your Vortex – then those objects, those relationships, those desires, those answers, those solutions that you have been asking for will flow seamlessly , in perfect timing, into your experience.

Abraham.

I would be interested in hearing from you about how you’ve brought things into physical form.. and the feelings that preceded it : )

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How to deal with inconvenient truth and the flow of emotion by Nadhira Razack

March 2nd, 2016 | no comments

Today’s article is about a topic that has come up during my time away and also on coming back to Australia..

How we women deal with inconvenient truth..

And how that affects our energy and our life force to go in the direction it needs to go.

Being in an environment that was not home.. where I wasn’t busying myself thinking about what to give the kids to eat or what I was going to have for dinner that day or when the laundry needed to be done etc.. I could just be in complete stillness. We had beautiful food prepared for each of our meals.. and all I had was the company of myself.

The hot spring and my view of the mountains in Calistoga, California

Mayacamus Ranch

I didn’t feel like I wanted to put the radio on.. I didn’t feel like I wanted to hear anyone speak.. and in those moments of stillness.. tears.. uncontrollable tears kept streaming.. so much so.. that it became a full blown grieving kind of cry..

I hadn’t felt the depth of sadness I had been carrying around.. I held the heavy antique taps while they creaked at night drowned by tears in the water and let it run through..

Emotions and feelings are like that.. like waves.. needing to just flow. No more squishing.

It strikes me when I work with women and we’re birthing the programmes and offerings of their dreams.. that we face these parts of ourselves we’ve squished.. or made wrong or shamed. I love being that space of support for them where all emotions are welcome.. where their head hurts and they don’t know why Or they feel super frustrated or annoyed and they don’t know why..

And then it appears.. this terror barrier.. this wall that seems to be in our way.. that we bump against and usually just resort to going back to the way things were…

And in those moments.. as someone holding them.. I know .. I know they’ll get through this.. and pretty much every single woman Will go through it because they’ve got me by their side..and Spirit of course.

It’s that when we try n do things “all by ourselves” .. we tend to not be able to see clearly.. or we go straight into rationalising what we’re experiencing.

Never swim alone.. it's okay to be supported

Snapped this at my son’s swimming class.. Never swim alone.. all these messages that it is OKAY to be supported

And yet with some hand holding to be able to witness and have validated what’s going on.. we are able to get through.. and suddenly we can see again.. it’s kind of like this photo of me.. after the retreat.. I didn’t have all the answers.. but inside I was free and I knew that no matter what .. All will be well.. and I will always side with truth.. and never be available for self betrayal no matter how hard truth is to swallow.

And  I take that stand for my clients too.. I Cannot Wait till I run my own retreat this year and you are invited! Email me back and let me know you have an interest and I will keep you posted with dates x

For now.. you are welcome to apply to work with me privately in a 60 day container I have two spaces open for deep handholding to get you to the other side of birthing  your dream offering and actually doing the alignment work that it takes to be the person who is available for your clients to pick you as their person x : )

Email nadhira@consciouswomaninbusines.com if you’d like to chat.

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What do you do when you suddenly find yourself off balance?

February 11th, 2016 | no comments

When life throws you a curve ball what is your default response pattern?

Do you just vent? Panic? Complain? Do you get snappy with the people closest to you?

A mouse in the house!

I remember calling my sister when I found out a little field mouse had gotten in our house and I was hyperventilating. My hubby had to get to work and I was in the home with the kids and I wanted to run. I didn’t feel safe.

 

I didn’t want to see the little guy.. I was tippy toeing in my own home and not feeling at home in a space that’s supposed to feel tranquil and alive and spacious. My things were caving on me because I wouldn’t want to put the kids toys away in the corner thinking I would get sprung on or I might see the mouse ..

He wouldn’t get caught to the mouse trap.. and I kept handing it over to God asking Him to please relieve us of this visitor and that I would learn whatever lesson I needed to learn..

The PLUS ++

I developed new habits.. wiping down every single dish and putting it away without leaving it in the dish rack overnight.. having a squeaky clean kitchen bench .. leaving cotton balls dabbed in peppermint oil.

My situation turned around when I applied the Principles I teach to getting clients in.. to this situation with the mouse.

I was communing with God and realised..

You know what.. I don’t Need the Universe to get rid of the mouse to be happy,  I certainly would really desire to have this little guy out.

What would I do if it weren’t in my home? Who would I be?

My soul whispered:

  • Well… I would go about tidying like I usually do. I would put things away like I usually do..
  • I would just be content and think happy thoughts and enjoy the kids and our home instead of obsessing about what wasn’t working.

I really desired to have this little guy Out..  and it’s the same with our businesses right?

We can really desire to create programmes we Love and work with our ideal clients… but we don’t Need them to be happy and make all our problems go away.

You can apply this to  your romantic life too yes? With Valentines Day around the corner : )

We don’t NEED our partners to fill some void in us.. we don’t Need them to be happy.. but we can certainly have Desires about what we want to have and feel in our relationship.

Subtle shift in perspective : ) Game changer! Read the above again xx

Once this sinks in.. and you really Get it..  you go about your business.. being the person you want to be in the moment and taking the action that gets you closer to the outcome.

This usually results in you actually getting your outcome by the way ; ) and we can be so content and excited whilst we are waiting x

A side note:

I realised this whole change in state.. this stress in my life.. caused me to let go of things that I knew always worked for me..

I just began to apply myself again to what worked.. which was my morning routine and rituals : my prayers.

Somehow my prayers started to slip and I wasn’t making time for them and showing up for them.. and piece by piece my life got out of whack.

So my question to you is what is your non negotiable that when you forget to do it or you don’t keep to your commitment , everything else starts to come apart?

Let me know in the comments !

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What if you weren’t meant to Fit In – but Fit out?

November 16th, 2015 | no comments

The True is “I don’t fit in – I fit Out”

No that’s not a spelling mistake. I got this line from “O” – a Boov in the animation movie Home that my soon to be 3 yr old is hooked on : )

Let me know if this video resonates – especially if you feel like an outlier.. never really fitting in : )

Love

Nadhira

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